I grew up in the 1990s and the thing nobody warned me about is that the resilience my generation was praised for was just the absence of anyone asking how we were — and the adults who admire us now for being “low maintenance” don’t realize they’re describing the exact training that made it almost impossible for us to ask for help in our thirties.
By the mid-1990s, somewhere between half and two-thirds of American kids in elementary and middle school were spending part of ...
